The Touching the Earth Sangha is a Glastonbury based Buddhist Community of practitioners from the Thich Nhat Hanh tradition of Zen Buddhism. Check the blog for Sangha updates, latest news and articles related to Thich Nhat Hanh and Plum Village UK.

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Friday 22 March 2013

Mindfulness for Therapists, for Counsellors and for Practitioners

Mindfulness is the energy of being aware and awake to the present moment, to life. It is the continuous practice of touching life deeply in every moment. To be mindful is to be truly alive, present and at one with those around you and with what you are doing.  (The Community of Interbeing)

Mindfulness is about “paying attention in a particular way: in the present moment, on purpose and non-judgmentally” (Jon Kabat-Zinn).

Mindfulness is not a belief, an ideology or a philosophy; it is a description of mind, emotion and suffering. It is an idea that develops over time and is greatly enhanced through regular disciplined practice, both formally and informally, on a daily basis. Mindfulness helps to disengage individuals from automatic thoughts, habits and unhealthy behaviour. (Perls).

Paying attention in a particular way: on purpose, in the present moment and non-judgementally.(Kabat-Zinn, 1994).

Mindfulness is attention to and awareness of the present reality, and when we are aware in this way we are able to observe both our inner, and our outer, environment.

Mindfulness practice helps us to see more clearly the patterns of the mind and allows us to stay in the present moment. Living in the here and the now, rather than spending our time reliving the past or pre-living the future. First we learn just to be conscious and accept whatever is there. Acceptance means seeing things as they actually are in this present moment. We cultivate acceptance by taking each moment as it comes and being with it fully, as it is! And by this acceptance we will see that change happens by itself.

Mindfulness requires a complete emotional experience of this present moment without the influence of our typical escape or avoidance patterns. It allows us to perceive things deeply, and with clarity, but it does not exclude us from the natural difficulties and pains of life.

There is a story in Zen circles about a man on a horse. The horse is galloping quickly, and it appears that the man on the horse is going somewhere important. Another man, standing alongside the road, shouts, “where are you going?” and the man replies, “I don’t know! Ask the horse!”

 

This is also our story. We are the ones riding this horse, and as we don’t know where we are going, we are unable to stop. This horse is our history, our internal stories, our habit patterns, and without mindfulness we are powerless to these inner scripts.

 

So we need then to learn the art of stopping or becoming still, and internally silent.  To still our thinking, our habits and the strong emotions that can control us. Stilling means our body is relaxed, our breathe calm and our mind becomes a kind observer.

 

All spiritual traditions throughout this beautiful planet of ours requires the skill of being able to be still. This does not mean that our body has to be completely still. Stillness is an attitude of mind, of feeling and of body. Classically becoming still is done whilst sitting or lying, but we can practice mindfulness while walking, dancing or any other activity.

Mindfulness calms the body, the emotions, and the mind, this is beneficial for a healthy body and for mental health and a great stress control. Mindfulness allows a deepening of connection to our self and to our spiritual self, it matures and develops our consciousness. Mindfulness creates a good space to manage emotions and encourages self-reflection.

           

Where the channels are brought together

Like the spokes in the hub of a wheel

Therein he moves about

Becoming manifold.

Om.

Thus meditate upon the soul.

Success to you in crossing to the further shore beyond darkness.

(The Upanishads)

 

In order to deepen our awareness and explore any experience or relationship, including a therapeutic experience and relationship, we must be able to work with our emotions and feelings. Emotions and feelings are experienced in the body as physical sensations. Kinaesthetic awareness is the ability to notice sensations in our own body. The main skill in emotional intelligence is precisely the ability to notice these sensations and then manage them appropriately.

In eastern, shamanic and some western mystical traditions such as Kabbalah, to be grounded is the foundation of good practice. In our western society we are often unfamiliar with the importance of being grounded, connected and embodied. However in all therapies there is an understanding that traumatic and distressful past events, and these can have been physical, emotional or mental, create tissue tension. If we are to work successfully with clients traumas being mindful of our own emotional and physical state is crucial.

Without being embodied or grounded, we have no foundation to stabilise, hold and integrate psychological change. So we need to be connected with, and grounded in, our body, and when we are we feel great, and we have naturally clear boundaries. Someone with ‘Hara’ has  clear boundaries.

If we are to work as therapists, as counsellors, or as practitioners, it is crucial to have clear boundaries. It is important so we can stay stable and present, we stay congruent, and thus allow the space for the client to be incongruent and work with whatever is arising for them. It helps create clarity about ‘what is ours and what is theirs’, and with a clear boundary, we can demonstrate Unconditional Positive Regard, we can have a generous, loving attitude and still say ‘No!’.

As therapists and practitioners, if we maintain a Mindfulness state within ourselves, we can be totally present to what is arising both in the client and within ourselves.
 
by Collette Barnard

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